Sunday, April 27, 2008
Here I wanna talk about a guy whom I used to be close with for a WHILE.. I shan't tell his name or his nickname.. Let's just call him F..
F is the type of guy who constantly changes gf, not because he's a playboy but rather, the girls seem to make use of him as their rebound. And gullible F always fell into the same trap every single time because he's still searching for love and I believe, won't stop searching until he finds the one and only even though the girls keep n breaking his heart.. Haiz..
But..
The problem is..
He has this, let's just call it a "Habit" of courting/wooing just about any pretty singles he knows.. Well I know his exes were pretty because I know quite a handful of the girls.. And because he's tried wooing ME and at that point in time, I was dating Nad.. So I rejected him cause I've already given my heart to someone else.. And btw I don't favour guys who're shorter than me..
So we remain as good friends and he got himself a girlfriend but they had probs and eventually broke up.. And one fine afternoon, he suddenly told me that he missed me!! And the way he said it was like menggatal kind of miss but to him he was just being friendly.. So I took it as my cue to stop being close friends with him..
But whatever it is, I admit that as a friend, he's a very nice person and one you can rely on.. But he can be suffocating.. For eg, if he smses or calls you and you're busy, he'll go "Why you never respond to me? Are you busy?" And when you replys saying yes, you're busy, he'll just keep on smsing you first, apologising for disturbing you but then he'll just go on asking how are you? Have you eaten? And if you reply im late, he'll miss call you again and again until you call or reply his messages..
And as you all know, after my break up with Nad, I seriously lost all the appetites I have to have guy friends and the ones left are family friends whom I rarely contact at all, and also Azri,Ryhan and Ridzuan, the three guys whom I trust now.. And yea so it's only natural that I want to cease contact with F right?
So F, if you're reading this, I'm really sorry but I just can't be friends with you anymore as the only guy friends I can have now are the ones stated above and also my colleagues. And yea, I won't befriending random guys on the street who ask for my number unless I see that I have the "appetite" to be friends with him..
Not that I'm being sombong as you've clearly accused me of, but I've just learnt my lesson..
secrets within @ 7:27 PM
